Archive for July, 2008

Getting Through Saturday

Thursday, July 31st, 2008 | Posted in my life

For the last few weeks I’ve had a spectre lurking in the corner of my consciousness. My mum has decided to have a garden party for her birthday on Saturday, and I’m dreading it.

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m happy for my mother and want her to enjoy her birthday celebrations, but I am not looking forward to spending a whole day socialising with relatives. Being totally honest, I am particularly not looking forward to being ridiculed about my weight. Two years ago my godmother made a comment about my weight, when I was actually the lightest I’d been for many years. Though she’s not a slim woman she felt it was okay to put me down in front of other people. It hurt me that instead of asking about my job or my interests she felt that this was the only thing she wanted to discuss with me.

Now I’m heavier than I was two years ago, and I fully anticipate that she or someone else will say something about it. I need a strategy to get through the day, to ensure that any such negativity doesn’t drive me crazy.

A few days ago I decided to tell my mum that I was happy to help her to setup the party, but I didn’t want to be there when the guests arrived. She was upset, and said that she wanted me to be there. I told her my worries, and she said that if someone says something hurtful to me I should just smile and make a swift exit.

Do you have any suggestions?

The Dark Knight: A Confused Review

Thursday, July 31st, 2008 | Posted in movies

Dark Knight poster

I saw The Dark Knight at the IMAX last Friday, and I’m considering going to see it again soon, not because I thought it was particularly awesome and want to relive each moment for a second time, but because I’ve forgotten so much of it already. I’m not sure if I was completely braindead from working all day before I went to the cinema, or just being overwhelmed by the IMAX experience, but after the movie, when my friend was talking about all the moments she liked from the movie, I couldn’t remember most of them. It was like I’d had a blackout. I can’t explain it.

I remember sitting in my tiny chair, with my handbag on my lap, and feeling completely menaced and mesmerised by Heath Ledger’s Joker. Every moment he was on screen was fraught with stress, for he had no concern for anyone, including himself. Everyone else, including Batman, was a planet revolving around the Joker’s Sun. He was a force of nature, a lunatic, “an agent of chaos”. He repulsed me with his reptilian lip-licking, but fascinated me with his demented genius. The moment when he performed his “magic trick” really disturbed me, not least when thinking about all the small children who were watching and who could easily imitate that move with their peers.

I’d forgotten how much Batman’s gravelly tone irritated me. I think I preferred his previous suit, though of course it’s good that he could turn his head now. :wink:

The character arc of Harvey Dent was very interesting to watch, as his perceptions and motivations changed so dramatically during the movie.

I enjoyed the scenes between Bruce Wayne and Alfred, the banter between them felt natural and gave the audience a brief respite from all the violence and madness. Though I really rate Maggie Gyllenhaal, I didn’t feel much chemistry between her and Bale.

As always Morgan Freeman gave a solid performance, and his character’s principles about the invasive use of technology to find the Joker raised the issue about how far we should permit authorities to invade our privacy in order to catch terrorists. The situation with the boats also raised some interesting issues about how ordinary people react when their lives are threatened, though I fear that in real life the outcome may have been very different.

Watching this movie in the IMAX really allowed us to enjoy the panoramic views of the city. The amazing sound projection of the space also brought a feeling of realism to the events on screen.

I’d be very surprised if Heath Ledger didn’t get the Supporting Actor Oscar, and it’s such a shame that he died when he was just starting to achieve his full potential.

Though I prefer Batman Begins to this movie, I feel that DK was a very good followup. It gives a bleak comment on our world today, where our protectors and our enemies are not so different.

I would also say that the movie was slightly too long. There were a few scenes which (though excellent) could have been cut, and probably would have made for a more coherent storyline. As my friend and I concluded on the way home, sometimes less is more.

And the Joker agrees with me, look!

Heath Ledger - Joker

Urban Recluse Rating: ★★★★☆

A few more words about Hancock

Tuesday, July 29th, 2008 | Posted in movies

Sorry about my previous post. I don’t know what kind of demon that possessed me. I can only blame it on the book I was reading a moment ago, which is about social druggies in London, plus the pounding rock of Skunk Anansie playing in the background. (Devil music, indeed.)

The movie was pretty good, until the origin story in the last third took over. Plus they needed to set him up against a proper antagonist with powers equal or superior to his own, not some demented psychiatrist.

A One Word Review of Hancock

Tuesday, July 29th, 2008 | Posted in Uncategorized

Wank.

Hancock

Three Musical Thoughts of the Day

Tuesday, July 29th, 2008 | Posted in music

You can fill in the blanks

10am

Video: I Can’t Dance by Genesis

Noon

Video: Wouldn’t it be Loverly from My Fair Lady

3pm

Video: Twisted (Everyday hurts) by Skunk Anansie